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আমি years on-chain data analyze korechi — but this story hit me hard. A man who once managed 20–30 employees in Handan’s coal plant, lived without mortgage stress, drove an Audi, raised his daughter with love — now spends 13 hours daily as a ride-hail driver. His take-home: $100 after rent and fuel.

He didn’t lose $300K overnight. It was four rounds of borrowing — friends, family, even his sister’s house sold. Each time he promised: ‘This will be the last.’ But every loss made him borrow more.

The real enemy? Not Bitcoin or Ethereum. It was leverage. And worse: the trap of never admitting defeat.

অপেক্ষা?

I’m not judging him. I’ve been there — fear whispering ‘just one more trade’ while hope fades.

It started with small wins on postal stamps. Then crypto in 2020 — caution replaced by hunger.

He used 10x–100x leverage not out of recklessness… but because he wanted to feel control again.

Truth: You don’t get addicted to gains — you’re hooked on recovery.

Every loss became proof that one more try would fix everything. No stop-loss? Of course not — if you set it, you admit you’re wrong.

That’s when logic dies and delusion wins.

**দুঃখই अनिवार्य? ** The moment someone lies to their wife about ‘work expenses’, they’re already emotionally bankrupt.

His spiral:

• First loan: $22K (family)
• Second: $30K
• Third: Sister’s apartment sold ($50K)
• Fourth: Mortgage on own home ($70K high-interest) All before realizing the market doesn’t care about your story. The truth? He did make some early profit — which made denial easier than reality check. The hardest moment? When his father sent a message: “This home is gone… no place for you anymore.” You’re not just broke — you’re erased from memory.

**Can Help Save Him? But is it just delaying collapse?

Coolie (Liangxi), China’s famous futures trader, offers ¥5k/month + ¥50k upfront aid for a year. On paper: noble. In practice: risky.

Why? If someone like me gave you money saying “Don’t trade again,” would you believe it? Nope — especially when part of your identity still lives in that fake chart showing green candles forever rising.r The real danger isn’t failure… it’s believing another shot can restore dignity instead of accepting loss as data point #478 in your personal risk model.r Even today he works full shifts just to survive – yet still checks price charts at night like they hold answers we all know they don’t have…

Final Takeaway: I’ve seen bull markets rise fast only to crash harder than expected… But this wasn’t market failure—it was emotional failure under pressure from capital flows shaped by psychology alone.rIn finance we say ‘risk-adjusted return’—but for humans? It should be ‘emotional resilience vs reward chasing’.rSo if you’re watching thinking “Not me”—look deeper.rAre you ever tempted by revenge plays after losses? Do you skip stops during live trades? Have you told yourself “One day I’ll get back into it” while knowing deep down it might never end? If yes—please remember: redemption isn’t found through leverage.rIt’s built through silence.rIt comes from choosing peace over power.rAnd sometimes… even turning off your phone.